gunther89, you said:
I consider myself a QDM participator, but to me you have to start out small and work your way up. You hear hunters tell young hunters to shoot any buck and work there way up, and build up there confidence. I figured I didn't need to do that because I thought I was a good shot. Well last year I had a good 2.5 year old buck come out and I missed him. Buck fever big time and so this year I said I would shoot the first buck that gave me a good shot and on opening day of the gun season I shot a 4 point buck. Everyone was happy for me in camp and even though we practice QDM noone gave me the lecture about how big he would have been in 2 years. QDM isn't about how big the rack will be when he is a 3.5 year old buck or bigger its about the health of the deer herd. A trophy buck is different for every person. I consider every deer a trophy and thank God everytime I get a deer.
You never mentioned in your post that you have never harvested a buck before. Congratulations on your first buck; you'll always remember the first one!
I also agree that children and first-time hunters should be given the freedom to harvest the deer of their choice. For example, my older brother has never shot a buck, and I have told him that he can shoot whatever he wants; however, he chooses to wait for a mature buck.
You never know how someone is going to react in the heat of the moment. At the beginning of the season their intention might well be to practice QDM - it's easier said than done.
If you have made the decision to practice QDM, and you have expressed those views to the others that you hunt with, then you should follow through with that. If you start your hunting season with a plan of action, I feel it is easier to follow through, and easier to let yearling bucks walk by without getting the itchy trigger finger.