Well said, Deebz. One of the most comforting posts I saw online recently was a picture captioned, "Relax! Nothing is in your control!". Counterintuitive, I know, but I've recently had a mess of things I have had to put in God's hands and force myself to stop thinking I can bend the will of the universe.
A lot of us has problems that some might scoff at. I do also know what it's like to reach an end somewhere and need to go somewhere new, and that is how I came to be in Ohio. It coincided with a divorce, custody fight and a job loss. So I left, and Ohio offered a fresh start an happier times. I don't think it's my place to judge what another person should handle or endure, everything is relative to the person, situation, their life experience. The only thing I ever suggest (that I have to force myself to think of too) is to consider the positives. There are always positives, no matter how difficult the situation. And nothing lasts forever. Change is constant. And what one person may view as a "first world problem" could be devastating to someone else. Perspective.