ORIGINAL: wack
Shoulder problems suck. I dislocated my right shoulder in 89. I went in for arthroscopic surgery and woke up to major surgery as the Doc couldn't do it all through a scope.
THAT sort of thing happens a lot more than most people realize; & I'm not just talking about shoulder surgery. I debated with myself for two days whether I should say something or not. You seem to be a straight shooter & a nice guy, so I feel I have to offer a word of caution.
I spent 22 years in insurance claims; 5 years as a medical malpractice examiner. I've seen a lot of surgeries go bad, many that started off with a doctor saying "this is minor ... I've done 100's of these things ... you'll be as good as new in no time." Then it's "I didn't realize the damage was as bad as it was ... I didn't realize you were a bleeder ... that you had so much scar tissue ... that the Jets were going to lose again" ... whatever.
Now you have back problems. I don't know what they are or what kind of treatment you're going to need. I just want to caution you not to jump into surgery, if there is any kind of more conservative treatment you can try first. If a doctor says "we can try physical therapy, but there is no guarantee that it will work, & it may take a long time to recover."
TRY IT.
When surgery goes into the crapper (& I'm not saying it will) the damage may be irreversible, & the doctor will have a 100 reasons why it wasn't his fault & it was the right thing to do anyway. Hey, about 15% of the doctors out there are true geniuses & wonderful people ... but you can't count on getting one of those ... which is not to say the vast majority of doctors aren't competent ... you just have to watch out for the bottom 15% which aren't fit to be taxi cab drivers.
One last caution. Try, if at all possible, to pick out your anesthesiologist vis-a-vis taking some unknown doctor from rotation.
Remember, if a surgeon screws up, you can wind up being a cripple ... but if the anesthesiologist screws up ... you can wind up being a vegetable ... or worse.
Bottom line, don't be desperate to rush into surgery. You'd be surprised how many times, rest and/or physical therapy and/or time will cure many injuries or just plain pain.
Maybe I should have kept my big mouth shut. But I've been around a long time, & too often I've seen pain & the fear of permanency make people jump without
really looking. Best of luck.